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i can resist anything but temptation

Lady Windermere's Fan

Lady Windermere's Fan

The Picture of Dorian Grey

The Picture of Dorian Grey


lady windermere's fan:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lady_Windermere's_Fan


the picture of dorian gray:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Picture_of_Dorian_Gray

oscar wilde:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oscar_wilde



oscar wilde quotes:

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"Lady Windemere's Fan"

  • My own business always bores me to death; I prefer other people's.
  • I can resist anything but temptation.
  • It is absurd to divide people into good and bad. People are either charming or tedious.
  • Life is far too important a thing ever to talk seriously about.
  • Experience is the name everyone gives to their mistakes.
  • Scandal is gossip made tedious by morality.
  • We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars.
  • What is a cynic? A man who knows the price of everything and the value of nothing.
  • Only the shallow know themselves.
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"The Picture of Dorian Gray"

  • The only thing that sustains one through life is the consciousness of the immense inferiority of everybody else, and this is a feeling that I have always cultivated.
  • Children begin by loving their parents; as they grow older they judge them; sometimes they forgive them.
  • I adore simple pleasures. They are the last refuge of the complex.
  • I can believe anything, provided that it is quite incredible.
  • I choose my friends for their good looks, my acquaintances for their good characters, and my enemies for their good intellects. A man cannot be too careful in the choice of his enemies.
  • I like persons better than principles, and I like persons with no principles better than anything else in the world.
  • I love acting. It is so much more real than life.
  • Nowadays most people die of a sort of creeping common sense, and discover when it is too late that the only things one never regrets are one's mistakes.
  • One can always be kind to people about whom one cares nothing.
  • Perhaps, after all, America never has been discovered. I myself would say that it had merely been detected.
  • The advantage of the emotions is that they lead us astray, and the advantage of science is that it is not emotional.
  • The only way to get rid of a temptation is to yield to it.
  • The only way to get rid of a temptation is to yield to it. Resist it, and your soul grows sick with longing for the things it has forbidden to itself.
  • The reason we all like to think so well of others is that we are all afraid for ourselves. The basis of optimism is sheer terror.
  • There are many things that we would throw away if we were not afraid that others might pick them up.
  • There is a luxury in self-reproach. When we blame ourselves, we feel that no one else has a right to blame us. It is the confession, not the priest, that gives us absolution.
  • To get back my youth I would do anything in the world, except take exercise, get up early, or be respectable.
  • When a woman marries again, it is because she detested her first husband. When a man marries again, it is because he adored his first wife. Women try their luck; men risk theirs.
  • Whenever a man does a thoroughly stupid thing, it is always from the noblest motives.
  • Women love us for our defects. If we have enough of them, they will forgive us everything, even our intellects.
  • There is no such thing as a moral or an immoral book. Books are well written or badly written.
  • Disobedience, in the eyes of anyone who has read history, is man's original virtue. It is through disobedience and rebellion that progress has been made.
  • There is a luxury in self-reproach. When we blame ourselves, we feel that no one else has a right to blame us. It is the confession, not the priest, that gives us absolution.
  • To get back my youth I would do anything in the world, except take exercise, get up early, or be respectable.
  • When a woman marries again, it is because she detested her first husband. When a man marries again, it is because he adored his first wife. Women try their luck; men risk theirs.
  • Whenever a man does a thoroughly stupid thing, it is always from the noblest motives.
  • Women love us for our defects. If we have enough of them, they will forgive us everything, even our intellects.
  • There is no such thing as a moral or an immoral book. Books are well written or badly written.
  • Disobedience, in the eyes of anyone who has read history, is man's original virtue. It is through disobedience and rebellion that progress has been made.
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"The Importance of Being Earnest"

  • When the gods wish to punish us, they answer our prayers.
  • The truth is rarely pure and never simple.
  • To lose one parent, Mr Worthing, may be regarded as a misfortune; to lose both looks like carelessness.
  • Thirty-five is a very attractive age. London society is full of women of the very highest birth who have, of their own free choice, remained thirty-five for years.
  • It is better to have a permanent income than to be fascinating.
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"The Soul of Man Under Socialism"

  • Anybody can sympathise with the sufferings of a friend, but it requires a very fine nature to sympathise with a friend's success.
  • I suppose that I shall have to die beyond my means.
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"The Remarkable Rocket"

  • The secret of life is to appreciate the pleasure of being terribly, terribly deceived.
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"A Woman of No Importance"

  • I don't play accurately-any one can play accurately- but I play with wonderful expression. As far as the piano is concerned, sentiment is my forte. I keep science for Life.
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"An Ideal husband"

  • Only dull people are brilliant at breakfast.
  • Suffering is one very long moment. We cannot divide it by seasons.
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"De Profundis"

  • Most people are other people. Their thoughts are someone else's opinions, their lives a mimicry, their passions a quotation.
  • Work is the curse of the drinking classes.
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"L'Envoi"

  • Crying is the refuge of plain women, but the ruin of pretty ones.
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"Phrases and Philosophies for the Use of the Young"

  • Vile deeds like poison weeds bloom well in prison air, it is only what is good in man, that wastes and withers there.
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"The Ballad of Reading Gao"

  • We have really everything in common with America nowadays except, of course, language.
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"The Canterville Ghost"

  • To give an accurate description of what has never occurred is not merely the proper occupation of the historian, but the inalienable privilege of any man of parts and culture.
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"The Critic as Artist"

  • But what is the difference between literature and journalism?

...Journalism is unreadable and literature is not read. That is all.

  • It is only an auctioneer who can equally and impartially admire all schools of art.
  • The public is wonderfully tolerant. It forgives everything except genius.
  • A little sincerity is a dangerous thing, and a great deal of it is absolutely fatal.
  • One is tempted to define man as a rational animal who always loses his temper when he is called upon to act in accordance with the dictates of reason.
  • Do not speak ill of society, Algie. Only people who can't get in do that.
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"The Model Millionaire"

  • A man cannot be too careful in the choice of his enemies.
  • There are many things that we would throw away if we were not afraid that others might pick them up.
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"Others"

  • A little sincerity is a dangerous thing, and a great deal of it is absolutely fatal.
  • A man can be happy with any woman as long as he does not love her.
  • Always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them so much.
  • America had often been discovered before Columbus, but it had always been hushed up.
  • America is the only country that went from barbarism to decadence without civilization in between.
  • Anyone who lives within their means suffers from a lack of imagination.
  • Arguments are to be avoided; they are always vulgar and often convincing.
  • At twilight, nature is not without loveliness, though perhaps its chief use is to illustrate quotations from the poets.
  • Biography lends to death a new terror.
  • Consistency is the last refuge of the unimaginative.
  • Every portrait that is painted with feeling is a portrait of the artist, not of the sitter.
  • Fashion is a form of ugliness so intolerable that we have to alter it every six months.
  • Genius is born--not paid.
  • I always like to know everything about my new friends, and nothing about my old ones.
  • I am not young enough to know everything.
  • I think that God in creating Man somewhat overestimated his ability.
  • I was working on the proof of one of my poems all the morning, and took out a comma. In the afternoon I put it back again.
  • If you want to tell people the truth, make them laugh, otherwise they'll kill you.
  • Illusion is the first of all pleasures.
  • It is a very sad thing that nowadays there is so little useless information.
  • It is always a silly thing to give advice, but to give good advice is fatal.
  • Man is least himself when he talks in his own person. Give him a mask, and he will tell you the truth.
  • Morality, like art, means drawing a line someplace.
  • Most modern calendars mar the sweet simplicity of our lives by reminding us that each day that passes is the anniversary of some perfectly uninteresting event.
  • Most people are other people. Their thoughts are someone elses opinions, their lives a mimicry, their passions a quotation.
  • Music makes one feel so romantic - at least it always gets on one's nerves - which is the same thing nowadays.
  • One can survive everything, nowadays, except death, and live down everything except a good reputation.
  • One should always play fairly when one has the winning cards.
  • Patriotism is the virtue of the vicious.
  • Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live.
  • Seriousness is the only refuge of the shallow.
  • The aim of life is self-development. To realize one's nature perfectly - that is what each of us is here for.
  • The only thing to do with good advice is pass it on. It is never any use to oneself.
  • The only thing worse than being talked about is not being talked about.
  • The true mystery of the world is the visible, not the invisible.
  • There are only two kinds of people who are really fascinating: people who know absolutely everything, and people who know absolutely nothing.
  • To disagree with three-fourths of the British public is one of the first requisites of sanity.
  • We live in an age when unnecessary things are our only necessities.
  • We teach people how to remember, we never teach them how to grow.
  • Whenever people agree with me I always feel I must be wrong.
  • Why was I born with such contemporaries?
  • Wisdom comes with winters.
  • One should absorb the colour of life, but one should never remember its details. Details are always vulgar.
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related:

Test for Echo

Test for Echo

"resist" rush/ words by neil peart :

I can learn to resist anything but temptation
I can learn to coexist with anything but pain

I can learn to compromise anything but my desires
I can learn to get along with all the things I can't explain

I can learn to resist anything but frustration
I can learn to persist with anything but aiming low

I can learn to close my eyes to anything but injustice
I can learn to get along with all the things I don't know

You can surrender without a prayer
But never really pray pray without surrender

You can fight without ever winning
But never ever win without a fight

I can learn to resist anything but temptation
I can learn to coexist with anything but pain

I can learn to compromise anything but my desires
I can learn to get along with all the things I can't explain